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	<title>Comments on: The Saga of the Ungrateful Teenager</title>
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		<title>By: Chris Douglas</title>
		<link>http://hoosieraccess.com/blog/2008/02/27/the-saga-of-the-ungrateful-teenager/#comment-1881</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Douglas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 02:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My guess, Chris, is that the individuals in question have never been to Spain, France, or Holland, but as I am, are well informed that all three are in positions of leadership in according to gay citizens the equal protections of the laws, including extending to gays recognition and protection of relationships, even as the United States has been so host to such hostility to those equal protections and religious freedoms as to amend Constitutions in 27 states to deny them. 

It is regrettably not impossible to imagine that of two standing in a restaurant line imagining where life might be better, one could have been disowned by his church for being gay, could have been mocked through high school, could have contemplated suicide out of isolation and desperation. I have met the grieving parents of students who completed that task in this state.   

That foreign emigrants embarking for America were already well versed in America's freedoms does not mean that they had already lived here.   My guess is that the individuals contemplating their future had merely educated themselves, as I would hope of any student of Indiana University. 

By the way, it seems that the boosters of the Amendment have derided statements that these marriage bans and the anti-gay crusades that accompany them would damage our ability to attract and retain educated talent. We don't know that the individuals in the line were IU students, but if they were, isn't it disingenuous to create an atmosphere hostile to them and then deride them for seeking better by specifying three countries known for a warmth of acceptance of gays?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My guess, Chris, is that the individuals in question have never been to Spain, France, or Holland, but as I am, are well informed that all three are in positions of leadership in according to gay citizens the equal protections of the laws, including extending to gays recognition and protection of relationships, even as the United States has been so host to such hostility to those equal protections and religious freedoms as to amend Constitutions in 27 states to deny them. </p>
<p>It is regrettably not impossible to imagine that of two standing in a restaurant line imagining where life might be better, one could have been disowned by his church for being gay, could have been mocked through high school, could have contemplated suicide out of isolation and desperation. I have met the grieving parents of students who completed that task in this state.   </p>
<p>That foreign emigrants embarking for America were already well versed in America&#8217;s freedoms does not mean that they had already lived here.   My guess is that the individuals contemplating their future had merely educated themselves, as I would hope of any student of Indiana University. </p>
<p>By the way, it seems that the boosters of the Amendment have derided statements that these marriage bans and the anti-gay crusades that accompany them would damage our ability to attract and retain educated talent. We don&#8217;t know that the individuals in the line were IU students, but if they were, isn&#8217;t it disingenuous to create an atmosphere hostile to them and then deride them for seeking better by specifying three countries known for a warmth of acceptance of gays?</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://hoosieraccess.com/blog/2008/02/27/the-saga-of-the-ungrateful-teenager/#comment-1878</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 23:24:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Chris D,

I'm basing my presumption on the fact that I've never heard anyone in this area compare and contrast whether it would be better to live in Spain, France or the Netherlands than in the United States.  That seems to be something that is confined to people with the means that make them comfortable enough to even consider those types of daydreams.

It would be interesting to conduct a poll of IU-B students asking them that question and their financial status, then ask the poll of students at IUN and Purdue Cal.  I hypothesize that the answers of the IU-B students would be greatly different than those of the IUN and Purdue Cal students.

I might be basing my presumption on the fact that I see a lot of middle class folks driving their cars and work trucks to the mills and other workplaces sporting American flags and "God Bless America" bumper stickers right next to their union local and "vote union" stickers.

Of course, maybe it is patriotic to daydream about how ones life might be made better by hoping on a plane and living in Amsterdam, Mallorca or the Cote d'Azur.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Chris D,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m basing my presumption on the fact that I&#8217;ve never heard anyone in this area compare and contrast whether it would be better to live in Spain, France or the Netherlands than in the United States.  That seems to be something that is confined to people with the means that make them comfortable enough to even consider those types of daydreams.</p>
<p>It would be interesting to conduct a poll of IU-B students asking them that question and their financial status, then ask the poll of students at IUN and Purdue Cal.  I hypothesize that the answers of the IU-B students would be greatly different than those of the IUN and Purdue Cal students.</p>
<p>I might be basing my presumption on the fact that I see a lot of middle class folks driving their cars and work trucks to the mills and other workplaces sporting American flags and &#8220;God Bless America&#8221; bumper stickers right next to their union local and &#8220;vote union&#8221; stickers.</p>
<p>Of course, maybe it is patriotic to daydream about how ones life might be made better by hoping on a plane and living in Amsterdam, Mallorca or the Cote d&#8217;Azur.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Douglas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Douglas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 19:11:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>By the way, it is presumptuous to say that the two kids in the fast food joint have been on an easy ride, as presumptuous as assuming that my parents paid for my college education.  They didn't.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By the way, it is presumptuous to say that the two kids in the fast food joint have been on an easy ride, as presumptuous as assuming that my parents paid for my college education.  They didn&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Douglas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Douglas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 19:08:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Exactly right, Josh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exactly right, Josh.</p>
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		<title>By: Josh Gillespie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josh Gillespie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 18:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tools should be allowed to make tools of themselves...much like this kid did.  His actions irritate me and probably the majority of Americans, but he still has the right to be a tool.  

That's why we have Code Pink and that horrible church out of Kansas that protests funerals and gay people.  As much as we don't like 'em, doggone it, they're protected.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tools should be allowed to make tools of themselves&#8230;much like this kid did.  His actions irritate me and probably the majority of Americans, but he still has the right to be a tool.  </p>
<p>That&#8217;s why we have Code Pink and that horrible church out of Kansas that protests funerals and gay people.  As much as we don&#8217;t like &#8216;em, doggone it, they&#8217;re protected.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 18:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Let the kid refuse to stand up or pledge allegiance.  That's the beautiful thing about the country.  If he wants to hang with the communists and other radicals, have at it.  As long as he isn't hurting me and is acting as a negative example -- all radical protesters are an advertisement against themselves for the most part -- let him keep up the foolishness. 

I remember growing up in Bloomington -- I attended Bloomington South and IUB -- and saying things like that because it seemed like the cool thing to say.  Of course, I was glad my parents were working for money so that I could have the luxury of thinking about those types of things.

I bet the kids at the fast food place were just "going with the flow" and spouting what they've heard a million times because no self-respecting Bloomingtonian would support a "meat-murdering evil corporation" joint when there is a food coop, food pantry, hemp sandwich boutique or some other place to get some locally harvested food that doesn't enrich the evil capitalist pigs who are standing in the way of the "revolution."

If they were really down with it, they'd go dumpster diving in the "Freegan" tradition and recycle discarded food from restaurants and grocery stores.  It's the ultimate protest against the man, short of living off of the grid somewhere in the Hoosier National Forest in a tree that might be threatened by a diabolical logger.

My parents are in Bloomington, so it's always fun to go back home and visit.  It's also not the real world, so that makes it even more fun.

If I was still living in Bloomington, I'd probably be spouting off about how McDonalds ruined Kirkwood or how we need to tax the rich until they move out of the country to some place with lower taxes.

It's always easier to complain about the evil American system when you're not working, have no possessions and have all the bills paid for by mom and dad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let the kid refuse to stand up or pledge allegiance.  That&#8217;s the beautiful thing about the country.  If he wants to hang with the communists and other radicals, have at it.  As long as he isn&#8217;t hurting me and is acting as a negative example &#8212; all radical protesters are an advertisement against themselves for the most part &#8212; let him keep up the foolishness. </p>
<p>I remember growing up in Bloomington &#8212; I attended Bloomington South and IUB &#8212; and saying things like that because it seemed like the cool thing to say.  Of course, I was glad my parents were working for money so that I could have the luxury of thinking about those types of things.</p>
<p>I bet the kids at the fast food place were just &#8220;going with the flow&#8221; and spouting what they&#8217;ve heard a million times because no self-respecting Bloomingtonian would support a &#8220;meat-murdering evil corporation&#8221; joint when there is a food coop, food pantry, hemp sandwich boutique or some other place to get some locally harvested food that doesn&#8217;t enrich the evil capitalist pigs who are standing in the way of the &#8220;revolution.&#8221;</p>
<p>If they were really down with it, they&#8217;d go dumpster diving in the &#8220;Freegan&#8221; tradition and recycle discarded food from restaurants and grocery stores.  It&#8217;s the ultimate protest against the man, short of living off of the grid somewhere in the Hoosier National Forest in a tree that might be threatened by a diabolical logger.</p>
<p>My parents are in Bloomington, so it&#8217;s always fun to go back home and visit.  It&#8217;s also not the real world, so that makes it even more fun.</p>
<p>If I was still living in Bloomington, I&#8217;d probably be spouting off about how McDonalds ruined Kirkwood or how we need to tax the rich until they move out of the country to some place with lower taxes.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s always easier to complain about the evil American system when you&#8217;re not working, have no possessions and have all the bills paid for by mom and dad.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Douglas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Douglas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 17:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, Michael, "This country sucks" is hardly a grave indictment, and depending on context, they might be right if they are gay. Given their reference to Spain, France, and Holland as better, it is easy to believe that is their meaning.  (Other than their recognition of the rights of gays, what else do those three countries have in common that would be relevant to two young men standing in line in Bloomington?)  

Suppose they had just been evicted from an apartment because the landlord didn't like gays (which happens) or one had just lost out on a promotion or even lost a job because some manager had a problem with gays (which happens) or one of them can't get on the health insurance of the other while seeing straight colleagues have no problem or one of them had just found an anti-gay slur written in soap on his car.

The answer would not be to chase them out or even to chastise them.  The answer might be to say:  "Hm.  I see your point."  And then help do something about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, Michael, &#8220;This country sucks&#8221; is hardly a grave indictment, and depending on context, they might be right if they are gay. Given their reference to Spain, France, and Holland as better, it is easy to believe that is their meaning.  (Other than their recognition of the rights of gays, what else do those three countries have in common that would be relevant to two young men standing in line in Bloomington?)  </p>
<p>Suppose they had just been evicted from an apartment because the landlord didn&#8217;t like gays (which happens) or one had just lost out on a promotion or even lost a job because some manager had a problem with gays (which happens) or one of them can&#8217;t get on the health insurance of the other while seeing straight colleagues have no problem or one of them had just found an anti-gay slur written in soap on his car.</p>
<p>The answer would not be to chase them out or even to chastise them.  The answer might be to say:  &#8220;Hm.  I see your point.&#8221;  And then help do something about it.</p>
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		<title>By: Jacob Perry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jacob Perry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 16:31:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I am listening/reading Mike (Google Reader comes in handy at times).

Frankly, I could care less whether some kid stands up for the "Pledge" or anything else, for that matter. We live in a country that encourages it's citizens to freely express themselves.

Surely, you aren't suggesting that this kid (or anyone else, for that matter) should be required to stand for anyone's version of a pledge to anything?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I am listening/reading Mike (Google Reader comes in handy at times).</p>
<p>Frankly, I could care less whether some kid stands up for the &#8220;Pledge&#8221; or anything else, for that matter. We live in a country that encourages it&#8217;s citizens to freely express themselves.</p>
<p>Surely, you aren&#8217;t suggesting that this kid (or anyone else, for that matter) should be required to stand for anyone&#8217;s version of a pledge to anything?</p>
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		<title>By: Josh Gillespie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josh Gillespie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 15:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes!  Another South Park reference.  I know this sounds crazy, but sometimes I think they produce the only sane political commentary out there.  Granted, I can only see the ones in syndication, so they're about two to three years old, but you weed through the crude humor and politically, they are almost always spot on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes!  Another South Park reference.  I know this sounds crazy, but sometimes I think they produce the only sane political commentary out there.  Granted, I can only see the ones in syndication, so they&#8217;re about two to three years old, but you weed through the crude humor and politically, they are almost always spot on.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Jezierski</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Jezierski</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 15:36:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"I have seen no reference to anyone bashing our country"

Actually, Chris - quoting the above "While in line a couple IU moonbat trainees were complaining about how this country sucks and talking about countries that were better than the United States"

So there was bashing going on.

We all know opinions are like a**holes, everyone has one.

And Bil, do I need to invoke Godwin's Law on you? :-)

I was referring to "political prisoners" and the term concentration camp came to mind. Must be the German in me :P These exist to this day in some parts of the world. Robert Mugabe of Zimbabwe (nee Rhodesia) utilizes them upon opponents, after he tears down their houses and businesses. The Apartheid regime in South Africa had them. I'm sure Cuba and China have them. Luckily we do live in a country where we can praise and criticize our leaders and express our opinions without too much fear of retribution. Except perhaps from some bloggers and the ACLU.

As long as nobody gets strapped to a chair and Eric Cartman injects himself with apple juice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I have seen no reference to anyone bashing our country&#8221;</p>
<p>Actually, Chris - quoting the above &#8220;While in line a couple IU moonbat trainees were complaining about how this country sucks and talking about countries that were better than the United States&#8221;</p>
<p>So there was bashing going on.</p>
<p>We all know opinions are like a**holes, everyone has one.</p>
<p>And Bil, do I need to invoke Godwin&#8217;s Law on you? <img src='http://hoosieraccess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I was referring to &#8220;political prisoners&#8221; and the term concentration camp came to mind. Must be the German in me <img src='http://hoosieraccess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> These exist to this day in some parts of the world. Robert Mugabe of Zimbabwe (nee Rhodesia) utilizes them upon opponents, after he tears down their houses and businesses. The Apartheid regime in South Africa had them. I&#8217;m sure Cuba and China have them. Luckily we do live in a country where we can praise and criticize our leaders and express our opinions without too much fear of retribution. Except perhaps from some bloggers and the ACLU.</p>
<p>As long as nobody gets strapped to a chair and Eric Cartman injects himself with apple juice.</p>
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